Not Everyone Will Celebrate you – In fact, you may not get the support from people you assume should be there for you! Be it at work, within your family and friends, or in your love relationships.
Can you relate? If so, what can you do about it?
if you are in a place where you feel you are pushing against the river to be recognized or appreciated – at work or with family, friends and loved one, STOP and pay ATTENTION. This keeps you stuck in a back Eddie with all the debris or exhausted from trying hard and not getting ahead. Staying in a place where you are not respected, appreciated and CELEBRATED, causes mental, physical and emotional suffering.
Here’s a template I developed on how to clear out what doesn’t work and bring in what does.
- FIRST identify what needs to change – you can’t change other people but you can change yourself. Do you need to change your expectations, friends a career or a relationship?
- NEXT utilize your 3 intelligences to make it happen– this includes your mind, body and your SOUL – Most people pay attention to their feelings and the corresponding thoughts and go back and forth, especially if upset. The result is the mind and body alone don’t always give the best advice.
- SO, bring in the 3rd intelligence, the wise part of you that always knows your truth – Your Soul. It is your soul that knows what’s best for you and represents your greater good. By following your soul wisdom, you can build on your strengths and seek out what is needed
- THEN Create a VISION of what you’d like, imagine the support and positivity around you -imagine yourself happy. Most of all, Feel into the joy of it.
- Now you are ready to plan and take action. With a clear idea and plan, you can take steps to make it happen.
- You’re GETTING INTO The FLOW OF THE RIVER. By taking direction from your soul, your mind’s thoughts come into alignment with a plan that is congruent with your strengths and become positive, your feelings lift with renewed energy. You are now in alignment MIND, BODY AND SOUL, WITH YOUR SOUL TAKING THE LEAD….
If this sounds simple, it can be. Know you can be happy and celebrated.
Reach out if you’d like support to do this!
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